i'm glad God is in control

preparing for a garage sale...i'm excited to get rid of stuff that i thought i'd use eventually but there is just no room. so...gonna sell it and make extra money. extra spending money is always good for the sahm you see!

god has been preparing me lately...for big things...i know i'm definitely a leader and i was made to lead and encourage others...but i had no idea His plan...so satan has been telling me that i can't do it and that i'm not ready and that i'm not good enough...

i've been praying lately specifically for my words...that they would glorify Him...one night God was so gracious to point out this sin in my life that i have been so blind to. i have a habit of saying things that are unneccessary and that have the ability to hurt or dig deeper than they should. and if my words are harming then they are definitely modeling Christ and encouraging others. so God led me to go through my bible and tag some verses on the tongue and how it can harm.

proverbs 13:3 says
Those who guard their lips preserve their lives, but those who speak rashly will come to ruin.

proverbs 15:4 says
The soothing tongue is a tree of life, but a perverse tongue crushes the spirit.

proverbs 21:23 says
Those who guard their mouths and their tongues keep themselves from calamity.

  matthew 12:34-37 says
33 “Make a tree good and its fruit will be good, or make a tree bad and its fruit will be bad, for a tree is recognized by its fruit. 34 You brood of vipers, how can you who are evil say anything good? For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of. 35 A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him. 36 But I tell you that everyone will have to give account on the day of judgment for every empty word they have spoken. 37 For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned.” luke 6:45 says A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.

and last but definitely not least, my brother James brings the truth...
james 3:3-12
When we put bits into the mouths of horses to make them obey us, we can turn the whole animal. 4 Or take ships as an example. Although they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are steered by a very small rudder wherever the pilot wants to go. 5 Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. 6 The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell. 7 All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and sea creatures are being tamed and have been tamed by mankind, 8 but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. 9 With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. 10 Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be. 11 Can both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring? 12 My brothers and sisters, can a fig tree bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Neither can a salt spring produce fresh water.

what our days consist of

Planting flowers...John Tyler loves to water the plants!

Playing...

Tears from itty bitty girl...

Hugs from a sweet brother...

Littles growing too fast...

And tons of outside play...

You are joy...You are joy--You're the reason that I sing

i have found encouragement in this song today...been singing it all day... Forever Reign by Hillsong United You are good, You are good When there's nothing good in me You are love, You are love On display for all to see You are light, You are light When the darkness closes in You are hope, You are hope You have covered all my sin You are peace, You are peace When my fear is crippling You are true, You are true Even in my wandering You are joy, You are joy You're the reason that I sing You are life, You are life, In You death has lost its sting Oh, I’m running to Your arms, I’m running to Your arms The riches of Your love Will always be enough Nothing compares to Your embrace Light of the world forever reign You are more, You are more Than my words will ever say You are Lord, You are Lord All creation will proclaim You are here, You are here In Your presence I'm made whole You are God, You are God Of all else I'm letting go Oh, I’m running to Your arms I’m running to Your arms The riches of Your love Will always be enough Nothing compares to Your embrace Light of the world forever reign My heart will sing no other Name Jesus, Jesus Oh, I’m running to Your arms I’m running to Your arms The riches of Your love Will always be enough Nothing compares to Your embrace Light of the world forever reign

2 Samuel 7:18

"Who am I, O Sovereign Lord, and what is my family, that you have brought me this far?!"

journal entry 01-05-11
I want to begin this first entry of the new year with prayer.
Lord, I know you know our heart's desire in this situation but i need to ask you more frequently. i want you will to be done Father and i truly believe you have a job for Tyler on day shift. i would ask Lord for that day to come quickly...before July! its really hard as it is with just us 3 and I know Tyler gets exhausted. And i don't get energy from him because he is always tired. please give us strength, perseverence, patience, and energy in the time that we wait. i thank you Lord for what you are going to do.

UPDATE:
after 26 months of praying and friends praying for us, tyler will start on days this month! as soon as they find someone to take his spot. i am very excited. it was a very long hard wait. lots of tears. yea i wished it had come sooner, i'm not going to lie. having 2 littles close in age and doing naps, dinner, baths, bed routine by myself wasn't really my cup of tea. i love having tyler here. i'm not a person who likes to be alone. i was an only child and hated it. so you can say im so very grateful for what God is doing. I know that he waited to just the right time. i learned how to be patient and more gentle because I HAD TO. tyler got a lot of experience working nights and learned how to deal with a ton of problems. he makes a lot of decisions at 2am when no one to call because they are all asleep. so we really believe God had His hand in it. the timing was perfect. perfect to God. so i'm ready. ready for my husband to COME HOME! for years i've watched my husband walk out the door and go to work and he came home when I was asleep. but no more of that! i definitely went through valleys that didn't look too pretty but it was there that i learned more about the Father and i leaned on His Word to carry me through. His word is ever so precious to me. so if it took this hard time to get to where i am, i'll take it. thank you Lord for loving me and my family...

who am i o sovereign Lord...

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my life as i know it...

life is good...it really is...

stayin at home consists of:
stayin in p.j.s til 5 because you don't want your husband seeing you in them then...you want him thinking you've been to mars and back...

consists of no sick days...

consists of no vacation days...i'm not sure i'll ever be able to leave my little...no one can love him like i do...

eating my lunch at 2 because i really forget to eat...

taking naps whenever i feel like it...

watching dr. phil and oprah during the little's naptime...

running errands around town with a baby in tow...

going to the mall...just because...

getting involved with church activities...

being inspired by others...

cooking for my husband and cleaning the house with a grateful heart...not a tired heart...

lovin on the sweetest snuggliest little youve ever seen...






john tyler...
i love you to the moon and back...every thought is of you...i know i shouldn't let 'mommyhood' define me...but i do...you are everything to me...all i ever wanted...i wanted to break the cycle...i wanted you to have a mom...to be loved no matter what...i'm here for good...i'll never leave you...i pray everyday that God would teach me and lead me to be a mother that loves her child with the outpouring love of Jesus Christ...i pray for you...i pray for your daddy...i pray that he is a good leader of this family...someone you will look up to...oh how i pray..

recap!

recap from last post:

plant some flowers- check (there were beautiful...some are still living...the ones tyler planted(
picnic with my 2 boys
take sweet boy swimming-check
read a good book- check (read a few)
have a girls night
enlist in a sunday school class- check
journal more- check
learn photoshop
take wacky photos of my girls
give more of myself
wear dresses more often- check
sell stuff off craigslist- check (and made more than asking price :))
learn ebay
sign on with scentsy candles- check